3 comments on “Is virtual sexting turning into Cheating 2.0?

  1. I understand your view point on this issue Diva, but I’m inclined to lean a little more to the left on this one. I mean a picture is a picture, and while conversations across the airways can become questionable, I don’t really see the harm in it. Now, I’m sure some will say that I have this opinion because I’m perhaps guilty myself. Well, I’ll be crazy to say that it has never happen, but in my current relationship it has not. Partly because I keep myself occupied with writing and networking.

    But let’s just say one day I find my partner checking away at his online site and chatting with someone… if it only goes as far as chatting, then I’d say have at it. It’s only when the sexting is dipping into the relationship itself that I personally consider it cheating. When it has caused me or my other half to forsake our obligations to one another, then there’s a bigger problem that we should definitely discuss. But at any point this happens, I think the individual will know and can proceed accordingly.

    In my honest opinion, people are quite traditional when it comes to relationships now and days, which actually cause a lot of relationships to fizzle out quicker than other’s. The same thing moms or even grannys did in their relationship, might not work in today’s relationship. Times have changed, personalities have changed.

    I think the cyber world should definitely be a discussion before a relationship is taken to the next level, meaning there should be an understanding between both parties as to their feeling about sexting. We’re in the technology era of society, it’s only fair to consider that one or the other, might want to bring a little technology into the bedroom. Taboo or not, we’re adults.. and we should be able to discuss such things to have a better understanding of our mates. Going in with absolutely no surprises whatsoever. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Great points Deeone! But like you mentioned, I am a bit more traditional. Different strokes for different folks but if I find my hubby flashing his Peen across the Internet, we got some problems! As he would have if my v-jay-jay was cyber-flashed. But it’s all about knowing what works for you and your boo. I definitely know that would NOT work in my house nor would I want it to. ๐Ÿ˜‰

      • And understandable, but my point is that we in this country need to understand that it’s a right to have. Just because everyone doesn’t agree with one another, it’s OK; my problem comes into play when a person is judged or criticized because they don’t share the same viewpoint as some.

        I am cracking on you though. “flashing his Peen…we got problems!” I know that’s real. You better handle it Chica! LOL ๐Ÿ˜€

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