Are men expected to cheat because of their upbringing?

While listening to my favorite Ice Cream Conversationalists, MrsXaviB and MrsKarlaB, last Friday on their IceCreamConvos Show, I was made aware that Tyrese Gibson was once again flapping his mouth on some more foolery. Now, don’t get Dee wrong I’m a fan of Tyrese and his talents. But his views on relationships, nah Not so Much! I really wish he would stick to killing decepticons and singing harmonies.

However, like Steve Harvey, Mr. Gibson has decided to write a relationship book and tell the world what we are doing wrong in our relationships and what we should do to change our behaviors. *whispers did I tell y’all Tyrese couldn’t win a spelling bee if him and Fantasia were the only ones in it?*

Putting that ignorance aside, let’s dive in on the topic he dropped on the Wendy Williams Show after you take a sneak-peek at his interview.

ARE MEN EXPECTED TO CHEAT BECAUSE OF THEIR UPBRINGING?: A DIVADEE REVIEW

• Women always go into a relationship thinking they have found the ‘perfect’ one. But, when men decide to burst their perfection bubble and cheat on them, women become more forgiving than most men and accept them back. That may be one of the reasons men feel they can cheat? (Just a thought!)
• We all have the one girlfriend that goes for the bad boy! You know the one that is fighting other girls in public forums because her man shaboinked her and now she’s mad! Did it ever occur to the young ladies fighting over Mr. Lover Man that maybe she should be addressing the issue with him and not the ‘other woman’. I mean HE made the committment to you not her!
• A lot of men may have seen their mother, aunties and sisters get cheated on by their father, uncles or husbands and seem to have a SUCCESSFUL relationship. However, there are a lot of men who have seen their mother, aunties and sisters get treated with much respect and love by their father, uncles or husbands and are the biggest cheaters on earth. My point: everyone treats their relationship individually. Don’t try to attach the horse to the cart just because they are expected to pull it!

At the end of the day, if a man cheats on a woman, it’s because they wanted to. Something in their nature said I’m going to be selfish in this moment and have no respect or regard for what I may lose by committing this selfish act. Yes, another case of the little head thinking for the big head moment! The key is for women to stop trying to justify the cheat and make excuses for men’s behavior. There’s nothing worse than explaining to your children why daddy has a girlfriend!

Let me know your thoughts on this by dropping me a line or two. Dee is always ready to discuss!